Wednesday, February 29, 2012

He's Here!



I just gave birth to my second child three weeks ago. It was somewhat an unusual kind of pregnancy, so to speak, because I wasn't aware that I was already conceiving until towards the end of my first trimester. Blame it on my super irregular monthly period, plus the fact that I did not go through the usual pregnancy symptoms - my eating habit was normal and there was no morning sickness or weird food cravings either.


What gave my pregnancy away was when I started feeling hardness in my belly area. It's as if I feel full even if I didn't eat anything at the moment. The first time I decided to see an OB-Gyn to have it checked, I had mixed emotions. I was scared because a friend of mine told me that she had the same symptom when she was diagnosed with myoma. Apparently, I can't afford to be that sick. Then, I thought of the other possibility - being pregnant. I was ready emotionally and physically. I've been longing to have another child, preferably a boy this time, for some time now. The big question is if we're ready for it financially, too. But, I guess, God knows we are because what better time to be blessed with another child after 8 long years than when your hubby just got a new job that offers better compensation and benefits, right?


My first ultrasound result confirmed it all. I was sooooo 14 weeks pregnant that day I decided to see a doctor. Four months later, my second ultrasound was a much better news: IT'S A BOY! My sisters were ecstatic, my friends and relatives were happy for me, and my daughter and husband just can't stop grinning. I was simply overjoyed! Ryan even became more protective and thoughtful after that second ultrasound, haha! And, boy, was I milking the moment!



At around 10am on February 9th, my contractions started. I arrived at the hospital at 1pm. I wanted to have a normal delivery and my doctor was very optimistic that I can this time. I had a CS section when I gave birth to my first child due to a very high blood pressure. But now my BP is back to normal for more than a year now, which is the reason for my doctor's optimism. However, after enduring 6 excruciating hours of labor pains, my OB changed her mind. Chaze was way too high up my belly. I remember someone used the term "floating baby" and in this case, a CS section is needed. So, a CS section it is, again.

At 7:27 PM, Ryan Chaze Tupas was born.

Weight: 7.9 lbs
Length: 53 cms


The first set of people who saw him were, of course, my husband, my sisters and my mother. All of their reactions were the same when they first saw Chaze - that he looks exactly like his manang Yanna. Here is Yanna's picture when she was still a few months old. Whatcha think?



When I first saw him, though, the first thing I noticed was how lovely his lips were. When I first heard him - his cry, I mean - I went "Whoa! My boy has a strong set of lungs!" He cried as if his life depended on it. Well, I guess, for a newborn's case, it does, right? :) When he was finally moved inside my room the next day, I held him carefully for the first time and whispered "It's wonderful to finally meet you, Chaze"

So now, we are a family of four. Happy. Yes, we have troubles every now and then but we're happy and I hope we stay that way, especially that Chaze is already here.


Tuesday, February 15, 2011

So, who's lying now?



I want to tell a story about a little girl who expressed an interesting observation regarding her teacher yesterday. The said observation was brought about by an incident that happened several weeks back. This little girl, whom we will name Alina, reported to her parents that her
teacher pinched her and her classmate on their ears because they were not able to provide the correct answers to a question during class recitation. Alina's granny, whom we'll address as Anita, confronted the teacher about what happened via txt message. Anita told the teacher that, unlike decades ago, it is now illegal for a teacher to inflict any kind of pain to his students as means to punish them. The teacher, as expected, vehemently denied such allegations and even accused the children of not telling the truth. She said she did pinch the children but she is very sure that it was not painful. As the exchange of txt messages continue, Anita also updates her little granddaughter of what the teacher had to say. Alina was still headstrong about the pinch being painful no matter how many times her granny asks her to confirm and also informing her that her teacher says she isn't telling the truth. To make the story short, both Anita and the teacher ended up inside the school principal's office. It was the teacher who really wanted both of them to talk to the principal because she wanted to propose to have the children concerned be moved to a different section so that they can avoid the same problem from happening again. Anita said "No way! Why would they be transferred to another section when they did not do anything wrong to you. If and when you transfer those kids they'd think they did something wrong. If there was anything they did, it was only to speak their mind. And every children has the right to be heard. You are in no position to take from them that right. So,no, I don't want them transferred. And they don't want to be transferred either. So bare with them!" The teacher asked, "What if something like this happens again?" Anita only raised her eyebrows and said, "Then stop laying your fingers on them?" The teacher explained,"That is what I do in order to help them study harder and have better grades." So Anita asked, "Well, are they're smarter now?" To which the teacher just fell silent. So now, the kids are still under the same section. Going on with their school life normally and having fun. Apparently, the teacher still holds a grudge. Yesterday, Alina told her mom an interesting event that happened in their classroom. It was not interesting per se but what the child thought about what happened really was. Alina told her mom, "Ma, when my teacher was scolding my classmate this morning she later told him 'Y'all know that I hate children who are liars,right?' and then she looked at me. So I wondered why she had to look at me. Ma, she really doesn't know how to accept her own mistakes, does she? That actually makes her THE liar!" Haha! Take that from a six-year-old. Alina's bluntness about the sad truth can be really endearing if you are not the subject of her attention, that is. Alina's mom just laughed and laughed again when she recounted the story to yours truly. So here I am, inspired by Alina's candid opinion yet again. To the extent of making me blog it cause I know I just gotta share it. It's funny how you can get the real deal of what's going on from a child's mouth when you least expect it. I've
known Alina for being all these. She's also a blabbermouth and a comic. She knows how to pull your leg and would immediately say "Joke,joke,joke!" once she gets the exact reaction she wants from you. A liar is she's everything but! If you can't handle the hard truth that comes from Alina's mouth, resorting to accusing her of lying is just simply pa-the-tic! For the sake of argument, let's say the said pinch was not painful, the bottom-line is when you lay a finger on a child as a means to punish them, the physical pain - tolerable or not - eventually goes away. The damage it does to their self-esteem sometimes just won't. That's what you need to be sorry for -- 'nuff said.


Writer's Note: ''This is not a fiction, however, any resemblance to actual events or locales or persons, living or dead, is entirely coincidental.''

Monday, February 14, 2011

Yanna's First Runway Show

It's Valentine's Day but I'm gonna write about my Yanna's first runway show. I've been trying to write about this for weeks now. Besides, I am really not fond of making special plans for Valentine's Day. I can make any day a day of hearts whenever I want to and not on when the calendar says so. Anyway, here are the pictures I took on my daughter's moments of fame :)
I tried how the camera works while we were waiting for a cab to bring us to SM City where the Blackout Oriental Fashion Show is gonna be.



This is the stage. The theme was Oriental.

Hence, Yanna's traditional Chinese costume.


Still waiting so we took the time to do some photo ops.
...with her uber supportive cousin, Allyn

....with Daddy.

...with Mommy Che and Tito Ronald.



♫ There she goooooooes.....♪ ♫
Mommy's most awaited moment! The cloud nine moment!



Blackout Junior's Final Walk

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